Answer: By Post is the simple answer.
If you know them via school or work you can do it there I suppose, but not outside school, and if you are a kid and slightly unsure ask your parents or guardian first.
I strongly suggest that you do not meet up with people you meet on any site unless you are 7ft tall and are an expert in unarmed combat and have a bullet proof vest. : )
Seriously NEVER meet up with somebody you meet on line.
I will just type that again: NEVER EVER meet up with somebody you meet on line
I am thinking of adding a middle man service where both people send their swaps to me and I then send them on. There would be a charge for this.
If there are enough people prepared to pay £3 each for this I might do it.
Advantages: Your postal addresses stay private. You never send off and get nothing in return.
Disadvantages: It costs. It takes longer.